Remember.... When your grocery shopping or shopping in general, make sure all your childs needs are met before putting them in a cart for a long period of time. Talk to them while they're sitting/laying there, take advantage of your surroundings. Explain to them what your looking at (describe colors, shapes) make this experience a good one. Set a tone, try not to be in a big rush and neglect their needs. If they are put first then they will be on their best behavior. If your child is sick, sleepy or hungry then this is not the place for them.